Lately, I’ve spent a lot of time reading and learning about relationships and the role that I’m supposed to play in those relationships as a Christian guy. I’ve been pleasantly surprised to see that the beliefs by which my parents raised me and and the ideals which they instilled in me are pretty much in line with what I’ve been learning. Whether it’s a friendship or a relationship with someone I’m dating, I’ve always tried to live by these ideals as a Christian guy. They’re certainly not unique to me, but I think what I’ve been learning is worth sharing.
I believe that my primary role in any relationship is to lead both people closer towards God. My focus should always be on how I can get closer to God and bring or encourage others along with me, as well as understand the path that God is laying out. The analogy that we always hear in church of people “racing” towards God I believe is very true.
Secondly, I have a responsibility to fight for and protect those people I have relationships with and care about. I need to make sure I’m actively fighting for their hearts and against the things that are trying to destroy them, whether physically, spiritually, or mentally.
Also, I have to make sure I’m giving; giving of my time, my talents, my money, my heart. I have to use the things God has given me in order to make the relationship better and to show God’s love. There should be no question that the person are important to me and I am cheering them on.
And finally…fun. Lots and lots of fun, excitement, and adventure. 
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